Whats with Money and Sex?

It began with a golfer.Then came the football and cricket players.Then guys from the financial sector felt left behind and in came IMF Chief Dominique Strauss Kahn.Anthony Weiner was the latest entry to a long list.Adding a whole new spice to a dish that the paparazzi all over the world have been serving to us for quite some time now.Everyone is all over these sex scandals cause media loves the attention it attracts when a public figure is mowed down in their court of virtue.Strangely though the same people make them the lords of the prime time.But the question that arises from the recent turn of events is "Whats with Money and Sex"?

Honestly speaking my heart reaches out to these men undermining the fact that they broke the hearts and hopes of their lovely wives,children,friends and many hysteric fans and followers.I know that they have disrespected their profession and office position by indulging in what many call shameful and heinous acts. But think about it for a moment.They are rich and powerful.They drive the Mercedes and Ferrari.They are the ones with six pack abs or with mind boggling bank balances.They are soaked in the moolah.In there professional and private lives they are surrounded by beautiful women all the time.Its just logical that they indulge in affairs that the society is so critical of.I am not trying to justify infidelity but to understand the strong urge that leads to it. 
Lets look at the psychological aspect of this problem.Each and every boy grows up watching James Bond .He secretly desires to have the the same life style.Driving fast cars and dating hot women.These testosterone filled guys work hard to achieve what they have always desired for that is excellence in their respective fields.Some of them taste early success and others get to it after a lifetime of hard work and struggle.When they finally reach a point when they can actually achieve what they have always dreamed of they don't see any harm in living their life King Size.Why cant they enjoy something that took so much of efforts and struggle on their part.Recently an English Footballer said that girls give them a lot of attention and show their availability for sex.They would do anything for being a WAG.Now would it be fair to solely blame these men for these scandals.
Hollywood has time and again witnessed women taking away their husbands fortune when filling for divorce.I don't  understand how this could help the victim overcome the trauma that she had experienced.When a person like Mr Kahn who is the chief of IMF is caught in a scandal it clearly portrays that this desire originates from his wish to prove    to himself that he is godlike .He wants to prove that nobody can harm him and that he is above all law and order.That he is why he becomes a sex addict cause he thinks that why cant i have multiple affairs when i am what i am?Its his and many others who wanna prove to themselves that they are the sultans of the modern world and they can do what ever they want.
But the media is going too hard on these men.Its very possible that they feel sorry for what they have done .May be they fell in love all over again or a failed marriage and lack of family love drove them to it.We need to give these guys one more chance cause after all boys will be boys right?

It's not about the BABA's

The media world is currently on it's toes all set to give the exclusive coverage of any further declarations from Baba's shivir  of supporters and aides.For the last 10 days this man has been all over the news .His comments and declarations have been the burning topic of discussions through out the country.Even his blood tests and weight measurement have been aired on live television.Some are saying that the media has gone nuts , which includes the senior delegates of the UPA coalition .They have been wagging their tongues over the major support the country has showered upon the movement to bring back the black money to our country from foreign banks kick started by none other then the beloved of the masses Baba Ramdev.The same man who started a revolution in the country and made crore of people to wake up each morning and pump out air through their nostrils in a way which would even scare a snake out of its venom.May be that's the reason why the Government of our country became so scared that they have assumed that a yoga guru who decides to agitate against  the  rising levels of corruption in our country is their prime enemy.

But these elite economists and spokespersons are not looking at the root of the problem or they don't want to.They still have their faith in the weak memory and lack of enthusiasm of the Indian people.Only recently P.Chidambaram claimed that  the media is providing a self appointed leader who himself is corrupt with 5 minutes of fame .Well may be he is not too happy about the fact that the someone else is getting the limelight other then their governments scam tainted ministers and bureaucrats.These guys have been all over the news for the past two years after Adarsh, Common Wealth and 2G .Or may be that there future prime minister Mr Gandhi who is next to the throne is no where in the news .And that brings me too the fact that neither Sonia or Rahul have stepped out on any public platform to talk about the Lokpal Committee or Baba's Agitation.They fail to understand that media is showcasing what the crowds demand. The people support him cause he speaks the language of the people and can discuss things in way that every individual understands them.On this they say that the person is misleading the people and start declaring their achievements in the world financial sector.We saved the "Indian Naiya" during the recession period , the GDP rose.We say to hell with the GDP and Sen-sex."Abey Ghanto!!!" ,we  just need our Roti and Dal in affordable and good quality .The ghosts of the 100 rupee/kilo onion is still haunting the common man.The government could only blabber , they find these demands to be kiddish and not of national importance.They say that they have got more important jobs at hand.I ask whats the benefit of a growth that never reaches to the pockets of the common man but only takes out things of his plate time and again?

When none of the political tools worked out the government applied force.Force to beat up thousands of women ,children and elders who were sleeping when the Dabanng police force did what they are best at doing.......beat up people.Hats off to the government guys and i would like to specially congratulate our Prime Minister who finally proved that he has got his balls in place.The same assests of his which have been a topic of Debate over the forever postponed hanging of Ajmal Kasab .A amn who buchered hundreds.Now they are onto prove that Baba and his aides are scamster's themselves.And as people know it everything is fine if two culprits accuse one other.Baba has got money in banks , undeclared assets ,properties all over the world.All this evidence has cropped up in a a couple of days without the formation of a investigating committee  .When other similar cases have been dealt with in years after spending crore of Rupees in JPC's and ACP's.Well at least he is not a public office holder or a government beneficiary .He is a businessman and even the people can understand how much money he must be making after organizing camps all over the country round the year.He is not stealing from us , betraying us or participating in any other kind of embezzlement that concerns public funds.And what in the world is wrong with a person who feels strongly about a issue and decides to take a stand ? People are joining him cause they have been holding their anger and outrage for quite sometime and Baba and Anna Hazare have got the the ability to mobilize and convert this potential into a thrust that can make history.

Personally i don't care who the man is or what his history is .As far as people support him and he stands for the right cause he is justifiable and credible.Instead of continuing with the political monarchy of some of the political families of this country we should strive hard to get our supported candidates to those political positions which have been unreachable for such men.Good leaders have been present before but they never got enough power to exercise it for the good of the public.With such leaders in top notch spots and committees like the Lokpal to keep a check on them, things would change and i firmly believe that a new era would dawn on the soil of our country.